Logan's tips for guys new to kink/fetish BDSM Play - #001

#001 - Be honest from the start.

#001 - Any experienced play partner can spot a bullshitter (a fantasy-focused person) 5 miles out. If you're not up for it, be honest from the start.

 

And by honest, I mean be honest with yourself about whether you're ready to have that session. Figure it out, lest the other person catches on and you lose that chance! If you aren't ready, that's perfectly OK. Just be honest with them! If they're decent, they'll understand and won't insult, guilt, or otherwise try to pressure you against your own conscience.

The alternative, of course, is to waste that person's time with fantasy talk in an attempt to jerk off, cum, and therefore escape whatever desires brought you to want that session in the first place. This is generally disrespectful as hell, and you probably deserve an unfavorable outcome if you do this knowingly.


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