[quote][b]Attticus escrevi:[/b][nl][quote][b]Aeropat wrote:[/b][nl]I think it's important to have a few "toys" of whatever you are interested in. For example, if you're into socks, at least have the pairs you find most sexy (color, ankle socks, sport socks, etc), or if you're into anal play, have a couple toys to offer for a session. [nl]If you're the one asking someone for a bunch of specifics in terms of kink play, at least have the tools to provide it. I won't spend thousands of dollars of gear, but I will have a few things that peak my interests, and those of like minded people. [nl][nl]My collection consists of various shoes/boots, socks, various size butt plugs, flavored lubes, cheap handcuffs, and a leash and collar. If something more specific is required for play, I imagine we've met before and have already used some of this stuff.[nl][nl]Looking forward to read others opinion on this matter ;P[/quote][nl][nl]Well as my fetish is largely body play, I do have a body.. :)[nl]I'm into wrestling, but not "pro" so for that aside from various shorts and a singlet I don't have the typical pro wrestle paraphernalia, like boots etc. [nl]But yes, if toys enhance or are necessary, then sure, should have some of your own.[nl]As example, I'm in BDSM, I have a full set of floggers and other impact play, and others for different play types.[nl][nl]For me, the top should typically supply the toys they will use, with exception if it's intimate (goes in your ass or pussy) and the bottom is more comfortable with their own, that's ok too.[/quote]